Save Your Marriage Before It's Too Late

Divorce - a legal way to separate couples. The result is an emotional break- up.

If you want to save your marriage from this dilemma, there are some suggestions, recommendations to save your marriage.

Before pinpoint your fingers to your spouse, point it on YOU! A lot of times, when we talk about reasons of divorce, we play the BLAMING GAME. Making yourself blameless, putting all the blame to your spouse. 

Accusing him of all the wrong he’d done, no room for good things he has done to you. This way, you become self-centred, self righteous, selfish. Remember. It takes two to tango. Instead of doing this, why not talk about your differences. 

Listen to what he has to say, don’t defend yourself when he is voicing out. Speak only when you’re asked. 

Stop accusing him, don’t criticize him. After all, what is done  is done and you can’t put it back again. Past is past.

Try to do some personal changes. If, during your heart to heart talk, he tells what he dislikes about you, don’t do the things he dislikes.

When  he complains about you, try to avoid and manage on his complaints until he has nothing to complain about.

Avoid unnecessary comments and criticisms so not to start arguments that would lead to a fight.

Remember you’re not the only one who is hurting. He is hurting too. When you talk, avoid recalling bad memories, because if you do, you end up justifying yourselves in the past, defending the circumstance that had happen. 

Try not to react on negative manners you see in him/ her. 
Marriage is a contract. Contract between the two of you, as husband and wife, and to God. No one separates what God has put together.  Resolving conflicts may be emotional and physical. Just ready yourself. Think of saving your marriage for yourselves and for your children. There’s still hope for a change and reconciliation.

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